Sexual Addiction Recovery Coaching is a Relationship. It’s a relationship that focuses on you, the client, taking action toward creating, clarifying and then realizing your vision and goals for your future.  It is creating the ideal image of your life, your marriage, your family… and bringing it to reality.  In the wake of discovering your husband’s Sexual Addiction, or in coming to grips with your own compulsive behaviors, this can seem next to impossible.  But this process is grounded in the belief that each person has the ability to create his or her own future, rather than be dragged along by circumstances.

Listen and Validate

Set Goals and Educate

Champion and Celebrate

You have a story to tell, and part of healing is being able to tell that story to someone who can hear it without judging.  The greatest skill a coach can have is deep, intuitive listening – hearing both what is said and what isn’t. Through listening and asking empowering and thought provoking questions, the Sexual Addiction Coaching process will…

  • Help you sort through the vast array of emotions you are  now experiencing.
  • Give you a safe place to air your anger, hurt, and confusion.
  • Help you to understand that these feelings are normal for your circumstances and that you are not alone on this journey.
  • Validate these thoughts and feelings, and help you begin to work through them.
  • Identify and make the most of your personal strengths.
  • Identify limiting attitudes and beliefs and identify the  inner blocks that may be holding you back.
  • Help you begin to see this challenge as an opportunity to create your best life (and yes, even the best marriage) ever…
  • Figure out what your dreams are as you reinvent your future.
  • Sort through what you can control and what you can't, and prepare to design your own action plans to make those dreams a reality.

Sexual Addiction Coaching will help you begin to develop a plan for your self-care as you navigate the process of healing from betrayal. It will help you...

  • Set better goals and then reach those goals.
  • Provide the tools, information, support, structure, and the accountability to accomplish more in the process of healing and recovery.
  • Explore topics such as:
  • Boundaries
  • Control
  • Anger
  • Forgiveness
  • Trauma
  • Accountability
  • Loneliness
  • Intimacy
  • Rebuilding trust in others and in your own intuition
  • and other concepts that play a role in Healing and Recovery
  • Understand the common, but unhelpful ways partners of Sex Addicts sometimes choose to cope, and find healthier, more powerful ways to work through these issues.
  • Understand addiction in a functional way - how and why it develops, and the structures needed to overcome addiction, as well as how to support loved ones struggling through recovery.

You will accomplish a lot through Sexual Addiction Coaching, and your coach may be the only one who knows just how hard you’ve worked and how far you’ve come.  That deserves to be celebrated all along the way. At Crossway, I promise to…

  • Provide ongoing encouragement and support.
  • Motivate and inspire you to be the best you can be.
  • Provide a safe and confidential setting for you to explore, identify and move forward to remove barriers to success.
  • Recognize, and point out to you, the achievements you accomplish along the way.
  • Celebrate your successes with you.