Crossway Coaching was established for one purpose – to promote the healing and recovery of women struggling with the impact of sexual addiction – whether the addiction is their own or their partner’s. At Crossway, I understand your need for safe, compassionate, non-judgmental support.
You may be here to work through the pain and trauma of betrayal caused by your Partner's Sex Addiction, or perhaps you want to know how to support him as he goes through recovery. You may be planning to move on without him and you don’t know how. You may feel completely lost, with no direction whatsoever. One thing is certain, there is much to learn and understand if you are to come through this stage of your life, stronger and healthier than before. You may be asking yourself now…
Many professionals acknowledge that the disclosure or discovery of a Spouse’s Sex Addiction is traumatic. Whether or not a physical affair occurred, your husband's addiction is a betrayal to you and your marriage. Your pain may last awhile. Give yourself time. The beginning of healing comes from taking care of YOU.
Healing begins with understanding...
Coaching will help you through this.
Few things are as misunderstood as Sexual Addiction. Due to widespread ignorance and judgment surrounding Sexual Addiction, few women will ever reach out for the help they desperately need. I’m glad you’re here. There are many reasons why sexually compulsive behaviors develop. But those reasons are not chains. They can’t hold you here. But to navigate the path to recovery, you’re going to need information, tools, support, accountability, and more. You may be asking yourself…
Sexual Addiction Recovery is a transition, and it’s not enough to just stop doing the things that you know aren't good for you… You need to replace those habits with healthy ones. You need strategies to handle your urges, and new coping skills to manage your emotions. In coaching, you will:
In coaching, you decide what your goals are, and we help you achieve them.
If you are hoping, as a couple, to work through this difficult time, I want you to know that your life and your relationship can be stronger and more fulfilling than it ever would have been had you never faced this trial. And I believe it will be. Rebuilding trust, developing boundaries, learning to effectively communicate and resolve conflict is all part of Sexual Addiction Recovery, and it takes a lot of work… hard work… by both parties. But the result is worth it. You may be asking…
These questions, and many more, will be dealt with in coaching. You can have intimacy and friendship in your marriage again, and in fact, they come as a package deal. But much work goes into rebuilding. It's painful at times, but for those who are committed, your best years are ahead… Coaching can help you with: